Responsiblity.

Salam to all
Anak2 sy pulang dari sekolah dgn membawa bersama laporan tahunan (annual report) setiap seorg. MMM... Masa untuk kami duduk dan cuba memahami setiap satu perkataan yg ditulis dlm summary report mrk. Jelas berbeza dgn report dari sekolah di tanahair, krn di sana ibubapa dpt melihat dgn jelas prestasi anak2 berdasarkan markah dan gred. Di sini, penilaian dilakukan secara general, dinilaikan secara level a,b,c, atau d. Lebih krg spt terbaik, baik, perlu perhatian, sgt perlu perhatian. Apa2 pon, di dlm summary akan ditulis 'well done', proud report n what so ever. Jd, sebg ibu bapa amat penting kita melihat secara teliti prestasi anak2 dari penilaian yg kita lakukan sendiri di rumah dan juga di sekolah. Kemudian, barulah ibubapa mengambil langkah sepatutnya thdp anak2 ini.

Di sini anak2 tidak dilabelkan kurang pandai (sekiranya betul pon kurang pandai), tp mereka akan cuba mencari sebab kenapa anak2 kurang perform dlm subjek tertentu. Cth nya, anak2 di observe perlakuan, cara berfikir yg mn mempengaruhi self interest mrk. Maka, anak2 ini akan digalakkan lbh kpd bidang mana yg disukai. Well, tiada istilah paksaan utk cemerlang dlm SEMUA subjek, jd, anak2 amatlah rileks ketika di sekolah. Hmm... spt kata si abang, " I like to go back to Malaysia bcoz i can play outside with my bike all the time, but i don't really like to go to school(Malaysia). I prefer to go to school in UK but i need to wait summertime to play outside n that's boringgg".

Dear friends;
The children has ability to carry their own responsibility if they're given chance to do the tasks. In fact they are proud to become someone like an adult. I can see my eldest behaves like his dad n sometime like me when it comes to try to sort out his sibling's argument. That's one way the child starts to establish his personality as a protecter,, to protect any further harmful argument from the siblings ..hihih.

And we, as grown-ups, of course the task seems essential to carry on in daily life. It's a must-things-to-do. Be a resposible person. And when we are growing more mature; the sense of willing to carry out the responsibility goes beyond what we expected. If we take that task as one way to enjoy the life, we'll not see it as a hassle things to do. It's just come naturaly, as long as we're capable in that task. Guess what quite sometimes you never knows it's actually suits you, u never know it until you try it out..! Of course, it might consume our time, energy, emotions but, just think of one thing: sincerity. You will gain priceless experience, hv chances to know a lot more people , to meet new people and get compliments! When it comes to a volunteer task, it will become evenmore complicated, denial, refusal from our inner self. But remember: when we do something good deeds, insyaAllah, the goodness will come back to our life. Or maybe to our children's life in future. Yeahh,,There a lot of things that money can't buy. We are not in position to see our future, right, so stay positive. At the end of the day, it will be something that you will never forget and finally thanking Allah for HE had opened your heart to take the task. The sweetness will come later.. Believe me, coz I had endured this kinda volunteer job, eventhou I was nobody. I'm now feeling so grateful at least I did something that I personally proud of..most importantly it was not becoz of any title..'Bukan kerana nama..' I believe there're a lot more ppl do the same :))

Dear friends;
To end this entry, I would like to say thank you to everyone who has been following this blog. Till we meet again, see you soon, very very soon.